I made a post about the namehim.io site. A place where women can name their abusers without needing to input their information or even an email. The fact is, the website actually doesn’t matter. It is the fact that women are finally speaking out. They are tired. In that same post I also shared a device that had supposedly been used in Africa that would give me a consequence if they decided to r-pe women.
I had tons of men and even more women say, but a device like this will get women killed. Women are already getting unalived. They are already being r-ped with the perpetrators having no consequences. We are already seeing men emboldened by a rapist and pedo file president.
When women have nothing else to lose, they will take action.
I am seeing women in their 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s and even in their 80’s naming their perpetrators online. Releasing the silence they some of these women have been holding onto for the past 70 years of their lives!
This is a shift that has been needing to happen.
Every law, every cultural norm, that tells women to keep silent, to know our place, to accept that this is just the way things are, and even ore oddly, to be scared to get in trouble and go to jail for speaking out, is a step towards a new society. A new way of living.
I shared that as women begin to share the names of their perpetrators, and the number of women sharing is staggering and heartbreaking, we will begin to see even more clearly why Matrifocal society is desperately needed.
The patriarchal society, that is global, is devastatingly harmful for all of those involved, not just women. It makes men into predators and then blames the victims for being a victim.
Matriarchal society is not women on the top. It is not now a feminist regime of role reversal, emasculating men and making them subservient. No this would just be an inverse of patriarchy.
Matriarchal Society is not the opposite of Patriarchy.
Patriarchy is where the men are the top of the hierarchy. Their comfort, their bodies, their rights, their thoughts, their lives are THE most important. Everything revolves around the man, specifically the white man.
Matriarchal Society is not a hierarchy at all, but interconnected circles. In the center, the most important circle, the most protected, revered and honored are the children.
Let this sink in for a moment. The children are the ones that are most precious. They are the survival of the species. They are the ones who are going to pass on the traits, and create the world for us to live in. Yet, in our current not just patriarchal but Christian Nationalist Society in the United States, they have no protection from predators, school shootings, abuse, and neglect. And yes, our children are neglected. Despite helicopter parents, more regulations at schools, “safer” care in medical systems. At the core children are not valued. In a world where they are at the center, an entire society would be there protecting them.
Next would be women, in the next concentric circle. Women are the ones who bring life into this world. This is known, but not valued. Women would not be worshiped as people say, they would be honored. Again, there is so little context to this in our modern world, because hierarchy has said, there is a top. There are people more valuable than others. This is NOT what matriarchal societies create. Everyone is valued.
The last circle is men. Not at the bottom. On the outside. They are the protectors in this society. They are protecting against external threats, environmental harm, and predators outside the circle. They are not the predators. When a massive, and I am talking more than 70% of the males in a species are predatory to their females, that species does not have long to last. It creates a strain on the entire society. The children don’t want to create more of the species, the women begin to live in chronic nervous system de-regulation.
But that is not the last circle, and in fact all of the circles are connected, interwoven, all vital.
All circles are held, grounded and supported by the Earth. Our only home. The space that feeds, clothes, and keeps us alive. Without the Earth, there is no human kind. Their are no animals, plants, water, and everything else vital to keep us alive, day in and day out.
So these circles are not more important than one another, they are interconnected and completely reliant on each other.
A circle would be all the animals, trees, soil, and water. Yet, we are also a part of this circle as human animals. Matriarchal society sees that we are all connected, think of the Avatar movies. Where the beings on the planet that the Patriarchy is trying to gain control of, is the matriarchal society. They are not depleting the resources, they live interconnected to them.
But women are waking up. 100 years ago, women woke up with the suffragettes, and the women’s movement, but it was all within the context of keeping the patriarchal society, not collapsing it.
Men think they are stronger, more powerful, and better in a patriarchal world. The issue with this, is they begin to think this is true, and think women will forever live by the rules. They think they can just make more rules to control women, but when billions of women, the world is 54% women, wake up, men will realize prisons, threats, and death, have no hold over us anymore.
I can see it already. We are tired. And we can not be controlled by ideal threats any longer. Women are waking up to our Sacred Embodied Human Animal selves. We are realizing that this is a losing battle to stay “safe” in a patriarchal society. So we will no longer be safe willingly. We have to make this change. And men are suddenly threatened, that women are taking their own protection into consideration.
I just wrote an entire chapter jumping into more of this that can be read here. https://www.patreon.com/posts/chapter-13-what-156903262?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link
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